Blessed with Family and Friends

I belong to a few homeschool groups for buying and selling books and other activities.  On one of these groups, I saw where a mom asked if she could be exempt from jury duty.  Another lady responded “yes” and sent her a link on how to do so.  So now comes a confession – my VERY first thought was, ‘Why does she want to be exempt?  What is her deal?  As citizens of this country, it is our duty to serve when called upon.  Why does she think she is so special that she should be exempt?’  I know.  I know.  I made a presumption, but my curiosity had me, so instead of assuming, I chose to ask her.  She quickly replied that her husband had no vacation time left and they had no family or friends to watch her children.  I told her thanks for letting me know and that I hoped things worked out for her.  Then I sat at my computer and realized that I am spoiled and totally blessed. 

I have family that lives a few miles down the road and was always available in the early years of motherhood when my kids needed to be looked after.  They were there for my two tours of jury duty, many doctors’ appointments, surgeries, and family emergencies.  If they were not available, I had a plethora of friends to choose from.   Thinking back on my adventures of motherhood, I have not missed any government duties, appointments or even a desired fun night out with friends due to the fact that I did not have childcare.  One of the best times was when my husband had the opportunity to go to Missouri on a business trip.  I wanted to go!  But at home was a precious four-year-old girl.  No worries – she split her week with her grandparents, who we lovingly call Grandee and Nona Re; then the second half of the week with her great Aunt Ginger and Uncle Toney.  When we returned from being away for seven days, I hugged her and asked if she missed me.  She said, “No”.  And I believed her!  She was spoiled, loved and the time flew for her.  

Today, this does not apply anymore.  My oldest is more than capable of taking care of herself and my youngest is good on his own for an hour or two.  Yet, he still LOVES going to his grandparents for the weekend.  And I enjoy the down time and extra quiet.  They have also spent time away from the homestead with their grandmother in North Georgia and hopefully with other family members in the near future.

Having family and friends who are close by and available to be in your life is truly a wonderful blessing.  I am so thankful!  I hope I can continue to pour back into their lives as well.